Ex thinks i cheated but i didn t Some days I can barely get out of bed. My ex-husband told me when he left that he still believed I had cheated on him 20 years before. Communication is very I just didn't love my ex the way I loved my new partner. Me and my gf at the time had JFC I hope this is fake but if not, I feel so bad for your husband. If current bf didn’t know the ex’s username but knew his full name he could Buddy of mine went through something similar. I quickly shut them down and and upset my girlfriend accused me of doing this. I told her immediately, and have never cheated since. Doesn't want me around them anyways. I got it from my ex unknowingly and the doctors asked me “you know what this means right?” i was so naive. Back then, I was simply going through the motions. Shen} Edit: TW and spoiler - the FMC is a virgin but through a misunderstanding the MMC believes she cheats on him so when they have sex he is angry and kind of rough with her but it’s her first time. I will try having a calm conversation with Nate and will update when i do. We I didn’t want to go on any more first dates, but I also didn’t want to be alone. no we’re at the point where i tried to talk to them irl and all we kept on going in circles of. But as I’ve matured both physically and emotionally, and have a much better understanding of the emotional requirements of a There are often red flags on display in relationships that things aren’t quite right. Abuse, shaming, sexism, and encouraging violence/revenge are Hello my husband thinks I cheated and I didn't. It feels bad for everyone. We just talked about it and he didn't agree to one until 3 years into the relationship, and when he was ready he was the It should be obvious the relationship just isn't good for each other and we are going in separate directions long before any cheating occurs. Which is weird, because my previous relationships i never wanted to be friends. So the word spread So I dated my ex-fiancée for 9 years. I spent 20 years trying to make my ex believe that I wasn't cheating on him. My entire family is clearly lying to me”. If you aren’t too familiar with Ex Boyfriend Recovery (this website) then I would like to inform you that usually at the beginning of every article or guide that I write I like to include a brief outline. He cheated for the last decade and I forgave. " more like he KNOWS you cheated. I you didn't sleep with your husband and in a few days you went to the hotel with your ex You must have been dreaming of this man for years. Crypto Today we're going to attempt to answer one specific question, do cheaters miss their ex. Sounds like you should get therapy and explore the reason for your decision to ruin your own life in hopes that I think that at the time, I didn’t consider it to be cheating. Personally, I don’t think you cheated but I can understand the guilt. Find out why he thinks you cheated and then figure out what you can do to prevent him from feeling that way again. Basically, caught up and then started talking about more personal things. Anyone is going to go ape shit if they believe they got the STD from their partner and are 100% certain that they didn’t spread it. Anyway, the good news is that your husband is a Of course, I know I still do. Don’t ignore your partner. They didn't even My (F18) boyfriend (19) thinks that i cheated on him with his best friend but i didn't and i don't know what to do to make him believe me. I found out 18 months later from the OW's husband that they had an affair. We are breaking up. I'm currently still texting my ex, trying to be friends. I've been cheated on before with the "best friend" Posted by u/Initial-Support-2977 - 1 vote and 5 comments It's her fault completely she's not ready for a committed relationship. She stole thousands of dollars from Now, she says she'll probably never trust me. Submitted: 1 year ago. He was upset but said okay. But I was with him since 15, My bf thinks I cheated on him but I wouldn't I'm 31 he's 28 we uave lived together since day one. As a revenge I went on a few tinder dates and had few one night stands. 3 years later she I didn't answer anything. I think the best thing you can do is EDIT: Sorry for the wall of text, I didn't even notice. I hate myself for it. It wouldn’t Something I heard a lot from my cheating ex (30M), and cheaters on this sub alike. I let it happen. The sorrow the guilt I feel is overwhelming. 2. My ex wife didn't know how to communicate so she would argue instead. Yeah. This was a very complicated relationship with lots of fights but "husband thinks I cheated. Her best friend told her, so as far as I get why my exgf thinks I cheated, but I didn't do it. The next time you find true love you won’t make the same I think your marriage is over. And second, are we playing telephone now?" I texted him and asked about it, and he said he didn't know what was going on. Then stole your car. We were really happy. My husband thinks I cheated because my ex took me to look at a car. After I left he tried to contact me a couple of times but I rejected the calls, at first I felt bad but I learned that he was doing it just I loved him, but I was so young and stupid. I don't get it. He never apologized either. At first I didn’t think I’d feel bad when I cheated on my husband because it was such So she cheat. When I married my wife, I really wasn't ready for it, but thought it was the right thing to do. He He cheated. even if it was 8-9 years ago, you still cheated on him. She never ignored me, but it didn't go the way I was hoping. I had been with my ex for about a year. I realize that now even when I didn’t then. 6 months later, my ex took his life. “I didn’t intend to hurt you” “I didn’t intend to damage our family” “I didn’t intend to traumatize you. ” “I didn’t She didn't believe me this time and broke up with me. The accusations were me If "friendship" is not an option (anyway, it more likely means your ex and you will end as acquaintances, rather than friends), tell him everything you want to tell him, until you feel there long story short my ex boyfriend broke up with me after being together for a year and few months in september because he thinks i cheated on him, even though i did not. If the misunderstanding Girlfriend thinks I cheated but I didn't . “i didn’t cheat on u (i said that)” to my partner saying “you cheated in my head”. She didn’t understand the last I didn't tell My ex about my boyfriend. The thing is that she asked me about it when she heard in the first place about 1. Fast forward I can tell you’re lying. She is Relationship was stagnant, and rather than address the problem, I did that. Not sure if i want to last week randomly my boyfriend asked me about an old coworker from the last job i had. You might know that your partner is totally wrong with the accusations they’re aiming at you. When I voiced that I disliked cheaters like third date in he disclosed it had happened once, he was deeply Thank you for your advice i really appreciate it. i don’t know I told B I could only visit him as a friend, but I didn’t tell him why. You also can’t prove that you didn’t sing the entire entire soundtrack of frozen with this ex friend, or didn’t cluck like a Business, Economics, and Finance. . Now you’re backpedaling on slippery bullshit that your dearest friend told Every relationship sets their own boundaries on what is considered cheating and what isn’t. My ex, about a week in, said he missed having intimacy and was wondering if I wanted to come over. Didn’t fight that often. John and I are still together. But I never did. The fact that you're trying to skew this into make your husband the bad guy and you're the sad little girl who didn't really cheat is very But I didn’t I’m a man woefully inept at discussing very personal matters with my partner — major issues remain unresolved, like her accusation of my being unfaithful. Hi so my girlfriend was received fake pictures and fake texts "from me" about how I wanted to get dirty with my ex. It’s something that can resolve I really felt bad and let him but I didn't let him do anything else. You may feel defensive and start to shut down, but not sharing anything with her can make her feel as if My ex thinks I cheated but I didn’t Long story, I went to a girls house party in the summer and I asked if my girlfriend (ex) could come. ” She then texted her brother and sister asking about this same thing and when they responded she said “They are all lying. He {The Kiss Thief by L. Joy go through these with a wife who had been cheated on. He invented a reason to make you the "bad guy". Nothing I ever said or did could convince him otherwise, and he carried the At that point I didn't give AF, but I felt bad because her mom loved me and she was kind of jealous because I vibed more with her mom then I did her (honestly wish I dated her instead lol). He did that when he screwed her. Help?!! I found out today that I got an std from my ex. I've been thinking back on our relationship and i have the feeling he cheated on me or at least that he met someone else. She cheated. I don’t think she will change her mind. YOU have that power over both 13M subscribers in the relationship_advice community. I know I Anyways, I DID NOT cheat. I could have claimed half the house or car but I DIDN'T I cheated because love wasn’t enough to keep our relationship strong. I told her I will be more intimate and give her move Although he didn’t think that he was cheating, you think that he is cheating so that should be something to discuss with the both of you. And the fight we had was about him hiding a conversation Recently talked with the ex after being broken up for 4 months, NC for 3. Note that my ex hates my new gf Let me start off here with some back ground. u are so narcissistic that you didn't even noticed your husband was suffering from depression. The big mistake Fast forward 6 months I receive cheating allegations from guys at my ex’s school. He thinks I cheated but I didn’t!! then he tells me to prove that I didn’t cheat I offered him to go thru my phone but he didn’t want to so I don’t know where I stand or how to convince him that Ok, first of all, “unconditional love” isn’t really a thing except between maybe a parent and child. What a piece of shit. -his therapist says he is justified in feeling like I cheated but that there’s a Please think long and hard about continuing this relationship. Then it led Agreed, but my ex gf (2nd serious) didnt pay much attention to me and when i was with her she kept texting other dudes and didnt pay me much attention so i got a little jelous. I mean, she IS but From her past experience she thinks she isnt. Known for always choosing the wrong guys or messing up relationships, Sonya was TLDR: My husband went on a business trip and during the trip he went on a date with some girl. Notice I didn't say "we" tried to make it work. He has mine. It breaks my heart that he thinks that, and won't permit contact or work this out with me. from the damn beginning, you've been a cheater. Obviously, If you would have appreciated what you had with your ex then you wouldn’t have cheated. Maybe you ought to think about therapy before attempting a relationship with anyone. Don't take her back. He clearly step over your boundary that you Ask him what possible way you could prove you didn't cheat. Too insecure so I didn't push away people who pursued me and just took their compliments and led them on. Long He almost certainly cheated on you, and in order to make himself feel better, projected his shit on you. He seemed he wanted to get But I do want to prove to her that I didn't cheat, I've told her that she can go through my texts, facebook, etc etc. I thought the damage was already done. Cheated on EX 7 years ago. I asked her, how do I know you didnt cheat on me with your ex (because I let her go Lol. He had one long term A hopeless romantic that struggled for many years to find her Mr "Right" and made all the mistakes you could think of while dating. My girlfriend thinks I cheated but I didn’t? Just words exchanged, no intimacy. Keep in mind, before I spoke with her I My ex thinks this was “code” for something -I had a substance on my lingerie that looks like male sexual fluids. Yeah I am the same way. I didnt think much of it but I asked if I could see his phone to take a look at his text messages, My ex Like I hate cheaters, but I've dated someone I knew cheated in the past. Romantic love isn’t truly love if you’re willing to cheat and betray your partner, and they aren’t . I could have explicitly opened up the relationship, I guess, but the label didn’t matter. I didn’t. It was so stressful, because I About six months after Bob and I split I started seriously dating John. A guy she knew was interested in more than just being friends she’s been talking with she defended him when you brought it up it Wife goes along with this 100% When the three of them do something together she comes home more alive than I've seen her in years. I moved out and trying to Now my friend thinks his ex really didn’t cheat, that she just said she did to test his commitment/fuck with his head. I think a large part of the reason I wanted to be with John is 10 months ago a girl added me n flirted with me but I didn’t flirt with her back I just answered her questions . I thought this was fine because my ex and this girl who My ex thinks I cheated but I didn’t Long story, I went to a girls house party in the summer and I asked if my girlfriend (ex) could come. I don't think you cheated tho. She said cheating was wrong and she does miss what I provided. Don't know what the fuck to do. With my last boyfriend, I didn’t I’m not entirely sure if he’s learned, he was with his ex for a year an a half after he cheated and she never knew as far as I’m aware. It keeps him up at night and he'll just text me in the She divorced you because you cheated. I should have ended it there. So about 6 months ago my (f19) ex boyfriend (m19) broke up about two weeks after he told me Had a buddy that had a habit after breaking up. I DIDN’T. You didn't say anything because you wanted to You can still redeem yourself. I think My boyfriend thinks I cheated on him but I didn’t and he won’t listen to me . 11, The relationship was 18 months. I never did that to him and I would not do that to anyone. I Ex thinks I've cheated when I haven't Boyfriend [M30 ]of 2 years broke up with me [F30] last week. If it was his fault, he would apologize th her and her family, if it were the partner’s fault, he would rat them out. last year, we were having problems, and me, choosing the wrong way to deal with it, i cheated And i told someone that i know i didnt trust. i haven’t worked for anyone in almost 3 years so i found it kind of weird. Edit because of He said there had been rumors going around that he had slept with his coworker. My argument is a simple one, most cheaters won't tend to miss their exes until that ex has But what I do think they regret is how it Cheating Ex thinks I cheated on her after finding out im in a new relationship with a mutal friend Repost from r/relationships after it got removed. If she was taking that stupid gamble, she lost, because her I think it’s something you have to learn on your own for most people. My boyfriend thinks I cheated on him but I didn’t now he won’t listen to me . Need help with your relationship? Whether it's romance, friendship, family, co-workers, or Ok so this is going to be long winded and a rarely post on redit so bear with me for the formatting. We talked about it a few times but at times we still tended to have those arguments. meaning he hasn't The friend didn’t know my sister so she told my ex that I was cheating. As for Anna and Susan i feel betrayed Anna would do that to me Susan My ex suddenly broke up with me on Thursday. Expert's Assistant: I'm sorry to hear that your boyfriend thinks you cheated on him. I got out of the car and put my daughter to sleep in our (former) house, then got out of it. I was helping a friend of a friend escape a psycho bf. I was bored and lonely. I'm very checked out. He didn't trust me because his first wife cheated on So long story short I found out from an exes ex girlfriend that my ex had tested positive for the clap shortly after because he thinks it sounds fishy that out of nowhere I find out my ex has I think back then I knew I didn’t care about him anymore, nor did I respect him enough to not cheat on him. Totally done! You didn’t mention about the sam’s move on you IN the FIRST PLACE. I think I read a quote about not rereading a Well you didn't listen to your gut back then but you can start listening to it right now I was in the same situation I had three kids with my partner and my oldest daughter I know is mine but the My wife thinks I cheated. I would think setting up clear boundaries and I'll admit, when I first left him, I didn't think he understood the consequences of what he did and a lot of what he was saying seemed BS/he was being emotional. My ex then broke up with me before finding out the truth and then asking me to take her back. Show More. The entirety of this conversation really lasted for about 20 hours. I thought this was fine because my ex and this girl who You're screwed. I want to bring her to the house where she said she saw the car to see if a similar car is parked in the driveway and to knock on the door and see who I and my ex are both in our early 20s, we have been in a LTR for 3 years, we were our firsts in everything from first kiss to sex. Won't take any of my calls and has blocked me completely, TLDR: Gf thinks i cheated but I didn't. Show Since he was a little fling but we never dated and then we went NC for 2 years I was open to trying for real lol and here we are 10 years later. Didn't care if she hurt you cause she thought you were going to dump here. he asked me who this person I have to think about it more, thanks Also he didn't force me to an OR. she's a piece of shit (we have a history of her trying and succeeding at ruining mine and other people's lives) but apparently she didn't know we were still together. He's accusing me of having cheated on him throughout our whole relationship with I said, "First, I don't have his hoodie. I didn't know that at the time but I suspected later on she lied about having ended that relationship. I never got the opportunity to explain because my ex stalked me and freaked out Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody. It's shitty and it's not right and there You didn't cheat, but it's pretty damned obvious you weren't over your ex if you fucked her for 3 months straight immediately after you started your break. The thing to do is look carefully at how to change the very dynamics My ex would do the same. I shut my phone off and decided to ghost him, but He didn't tell me. I didn’t have any symptoms, but I got tested bc I found out he slept with multiple women while we were together. Life is too short to spend time unpacking the lies that narcissists tell us. I hope he is I cheated on my partner after I found out she had cheated on me. The shock. u are so narcissistic that ur Many marriages experience infidelity, accounting for approximately 50 percent of couples entering marital counseling. But I didn't. So for context I (29M) dated my Ex (28F) She didn’t emotionally cheat she did cheat 100%. He recently Edit: Just read another comment about your affair. She wasn't very open to hear me out about how it didn't happen. The trip came and B kissed me. A little background my ex is very well known in my town and he still has feelings for me and Tell him you want to break up, then tell him you cheated. I drove home, only to find that guy sitting on the sidewalk, looking down. His ex's friends created a fake dating profile with his photos on it, then showed it to his ex to break them up. Someone who is either not sure or Would you try and salvage the relationship or should I just leave and let him heal? I don't think he will be able to heal and get over it if we patch things up with sex all the time. I could understand if I actually did cheat. She also gaslighted you and said you were insecure and didn't need to worry while her ex was pounding her behind you're My ex and i had been having little fights and misunderstandings every couple may have. I didn’t feel guilty about it because the relationship was so toxic at that point and we shouldn’t have been together at all. Infidelity can harm a marriage and the mental health of My ex didn’t cheat but I found out she was entertaining 5 guys on social media as my “replacements” like behind my back also she was just a shitty person in general no matter how Number 4 spot on. What’s the matter with you? If you ain't learnt the lesson yet, you fucked up, you didn't have to kiss ur ex, you didn't I didn’t believe my ex cuz she sat outside my door for two hours, but her doing so soften me to a point that i was able to have a convo with her and she provided some concrete evidences, For a while I didn't and then I realized that was one of the issues that we were having as a couple and you know I'm not even sure actually where I stand with the one I love because of certain My ex got with me while telling her ex that she just needed some space. It was just a shitty thing to do (in my opinion); even if it was just memes- the history between you two still exists. (I love our son, (not my blood) but So we're talking about something that happened almost 3 years ago. 5 years ago and of course I said it didn't I was financially dependent on my ex-husband. A year ago, my dds dad left me because he thought I had cheated. Instead I tried to make it work. Don't think I'd ever cheat again, and would rather solve the You've cheated in past relationships, you've cheated in your current relationship. and somehow, he's Even if you didnt cheat on him, theres a reason he thinks you did. I do this because My ex thinks that I cheated on her, and she understandably left me. But the moment you started to think about your consequences you started to feel guilty, and from how you just said If she really did have a bad experience in the past then i dont think shes over reacting. Been He seems to think that I most likely cheated on him, and he says that if I didn't, he just can't be with me anymore because my behavior is so "shady" that it causes him too much Only a damn idiot would kiss someone then think they only “90% cheated”. A little background my ex is very well known in my town and he still has feelings for me and Look, you cheated because you thought nothing would happen to you. This happened to me. Atleast that’s why I think my reasoning was. Everything was good with us. He was actually the friend of my ex, which is why my ex is my exso I basically cheated And his logic is we can move and start over because now I found out you didn't cheat I choose you and no longer want her. What we cannot give advice on: rants, unsolicited advice, medical conditions/advice, mental illness, letters to an ex, "body counts" or number of sexual My boyfriend thinks i cheated on him but i didnt. Why didn't he tell? He didn't want to hurt ME. I just watched him turn around, crying, She didn’t sleep with my ex best friend and yes I cut all contact with her. The thing is the number isn't even mine and the Need help with your relationship? Whether it's romance, friendship, family, co-workers, or basic human interaction: we're here to help! Posts must contain a title that includes basic information My boyfriend thinks that I cheated on him And for God's sake, don't write that you didn't say anything because you wanted to protect him. When i got Ex thinks i cheated My ex gf that i was with for a year was sent this text as some kind of "proof" that i cheated on her with a girl named Olivia. Took picture to what cause a lot of pain. He had issues too, but couldn’t Your ex didn't cheat on you because she didn't love you, She knows that you know and cowards like her will always think in fear that you will retaliate. "I've been unhappy in this relationship and wanting to break up for months. Can you tell me more about the situation? Today i was My Ex (22M) of 3 Months Always Asks why I hate him even though I dont? My (21F) and my ex (22M) broke up almost three months ago after a year and a half of being friends and a year This conversation went on, but to no avail. You're both wrong and this Rules reminder: r/survivinginfidelity is a support sub! Please read the rules and guidelines in our sub wiki before commenting. As time went My ex of 2 years and half broke up with me on the 14th December, because she find out that I’m on dating website and I messaged one girl! She think that I cheated on her when Another guy started to actively flirt with me, didn't respect our relationship, I didn't respect my BF at the time, reciprocated, and things went from there. All fake names btw. But telling them that and trying to shut down the Tbh I get why u want to prove yourself, because if you didn’t he would continue to think you cheated and probably tell all his friends and family that he’s so sure u cheated, if you do get to I felt like I was tricked like he painted this perfect picture of happiness and he just wasn't happy with me anymore. Category: Relationship. If you're deciding whether to give your cheating ex another shot, here's everything to know about making the do-over not only worth your time, but also leaving you with a stronger relationship Being open with your wife can help her see that you are not cheating. Sure, it sucks that your ex thinks badly of you. J. He wasn't sorry, kept having more. Later i found a recorded video of him and I didn't want the divorce but she refused to file for divorce or pay for anything, so I had to pay for the lawyer and divorce etc. tl;dr: He really doesn't talk to anyone about his issues, and when I try to talk to him about his hurtful past he says it's too painful to talk about Reading this makes me think this could have happened. I dated someone for almost five years, kept going back to her every time she cheated. It is hurtful, but it's your ex! He wants you to be the bad guy. She said there was no point in that because I could have easily deleted And what’s in it for the spouse who was cheated on if you ever do it again? Re this last, I heard Dr. GameStop Moderna Pfizer Johnson & Johnson AstraZeneca Walgreens Best Buy Novavax SpaceX Tesla. I was still living with Bob. One of my ex’s cheated on me, and I still think about him time to time This is not saying that my most recent ex didn’t have issues. About 4 years into it, she cheated. Oct. I'm so out of I didn’t physically cheat on her, but I emotionally cheated on her through text. We were very intentional about the relationship and communication. Unfortunately, it’s way too easy to brush them off or totally ignore them for the sake of staying together. The fact that it wasn’t the username, but the ex’s full name. As if him cheating didn't matter. You probably knew My husband thinks I cheated on him but I didn't and now it causes all kinds of problems. I wasn’t thinking what my Especially if he has prior history of being cheated on. etc. Simply, fear took over and I wanted to start the 'detachment process' to He thinks I cheated on him for months.
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